People quite often have the idea that they’ve had a reasonably happy childhood. And of course, there are often many things that went well. But upbringers will never fully understand their child and treat it accordingly. Boundaries can be overstepped and needs can be rejected. That is only human. Therefore, at times, this leaves scars on your soul and holes in your self-esteem.
Healing this inner damage, that’s how you can regard working with your inner child. Closing the wounds, just leaving a scar, taking off the edginess of it, putting the past to rest. From the scratches and shards you will end up creating your own unique work of art. You will learn to give yourself permission to lead your own life and not that of your upbringers. Read more here: